Pass over names and look to qualities, so that qualities may lead thee to essence!

According to Rumi, the Persian Sufi poet, beliefs quarrel over the names they give to God, but when they reach His essence, they all find His peace; he then tells the story of four travellers who quarrel because they call grapes by four different words. Today, when someone speaks of their faith or values in words other than yours, first look for what you both long for.